Sometimes when people experience trauma such as rape, the reaction is to push everyone away. It's not uncommon, sexual abuse can often be the end of healthy relationships. There are all sorts of emotions mixed in that I could think of, guilt, fear, self-loathing etc. Perhaps by pushing you away and...

Matty_the_Emo_Slayer wrote:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xV7Ha3VDbzE&feature=related

Brilliant!

I'm really sorry to hear that :( A friend of mine endured something very similar. The fear is a completely natural reaction, please try not to take it too personally - it really *isn't* you. In an ideal world all instances like that should be reported, but most aren't. She needs to make her own dec...

I wanted her to, and her counsellor also wanted her to, but she won't, perhaps in fear, perhaps not, I don't know. I don't know who did it and I don't want to know either. I've been cut off completely so there's not a lot I can do.

It's the traditional Monday pub gathering between the college lot... I'm going to miss it when I leave in September.

Aye that's a shitty situation you are in there fella! What is this unspeakable because it sounds pretty key to the situation. She was out with a few friends one night, and they went over to a "friend of a friends" house, and when she went upstairs to the bathroom this guy went and well, l...

Well, everything was going well with my girlfriend. I'd taken her out to her first ever restaurant date, had her the "happiest she's ever been", and I was the only one she came to for solace and to talk about anything that was troubling her. Then a few weeks ago whilst she was out with a f...

Bizza wrote:It's ridiculous just how good this Spain side are, 3 trophies on the bounce and I reckon they'll make it 4 in 2 years time.

I think it'll depend on whether anyone can actually take advantage of when they play below par. They were fortunate to get past Portugal.

It was a decent game when they played a couple of weeks ago. I find Spain a really, really boring team to watch so I'm missing the game, and hoping Italy win.

Also picked up The Orange Box. Portal is, of course, awesome. So far Half-Life 2 is pretty good too, just got the typical problem I tend to have with FPS games of "where the fuck do I go..?" The Half-Life series is my favourite gaming series ever. I've just begun playing the original on t...