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My mum is away all day and my sister goes to work at 6 so the love of my life is coming around. WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! I haven't seen her for so long (ok that's a lie I saw her at the pub on Friday but that was for like 2 hours and it had been a week before that.)

Messed up- Had 2 people tell me they love me.
Also Some random guy I briefly know been sending me facebook messages saying I am hot and he wants to know me better even though he is in a relationship.

Still single as relationships scare me but the worry of missing these opportunities and being single forever is scary.
Should I settle even though deep down it does not feel right just yet?

I thought being single was surposed to be easy!!

My best mate finally got the courage up to dump his girlfriend about 3 weeks ago, the girlfriend that was controlling his life e.g. stopping him seeing his friends & family (he didn't even go out for the birthday meal for his own mother), she told him to quit his job so they could be together more (and thus be away from his friends and family), put him down all the time and said that she'd fuck off and sleep with some one else if they had an argument. Turned him more or less into a drug-addled zombie, (this is the same girl who thinks it's funny to spike peoples drinks, and things have a habit of going missing when she's aroung like mobile phones ect.), she's the most horrid person i've ever met and nobody liked her not his mum and dad,his sister, me or any of his friends. When he finished her he realised that nobody liked her and the reason he finished her was because she was so controlling (she even did the i'm pregnant thing when he ended it, and used all sorts of emotional blackmail like askin him if he didn't care about her daughter which isn't his anyway). So for the past 3 weeks i've more or less lived at his to make sure he's ok and take his mind off it, going drinking, playing on the computer ect. he's started to rebuild his life all our mates were taking him out (male and female), a girl who seemed nice took a fancy to him so they went out a couple of times! He said he had his life back and he was enjoying it. Then he dissapeared around 5pm on Sunday and hasn't been seen since his mobiles been turned off, his mothers been worrying sick. I've just finally managed to get hold of him and he's round at the bitches! His mum and dad are gutted, all his friends think he's an idiot and i've give my liver a pounding of 3 weeks none stop drinking with him for nothing. If he get's back with her i'm wiping my hands of him i'm there everytime he needs me, and whenn i need someone hes not there.
I hope he tells her what i said about her and she confronts me ill knock the little shit on her arse!

The Warlord wrote:My best mate finally got the courage up to dump his girlfriend about 3 weeks ago, the girlfriend that was controlling his life e.g. stopping him seeing his friends & family (he didn't even go out for the birthday meal for his own mother), she told him to quit his job so they could be together more (and thus be away from his friends and family), put him down all the time and said that she'd fuck off and sleep with some one else if they had an argument. Turned him more or less into a drug-addled zombie, (this is the same girl who thinks it's funny to spike peoples drinks, and things have a habit of going missing when she's aroung like mobile phones ect.), she's the most horrid person i've ever met and nobody liked her not his mum and dad,his sister, me or any of his friends. When he finished her he realised that nobody liked her and the reason he finished her was because she was so controlling (she even did the i'm pregnant thing when he ended it, and used all sorts of emotional blackmail like askin him if he didn't care about her daughter which isn't his anyway). So for the past 3 weeks i've more or less lived at his to make sure he's ok and take his mind off it, going drinking, playing on the computer ect. he's started to rebuild his life all our mates were taking him out (male and female), a girl who seemed nice took a fancy to him so they went out a couple of times! He said he had his life back and he was enjoying it. Then he dissapeared around 5pm on Sunday and hasn't been seen since his mobiles been turned off, his mothers been worrying sick. I've just finally managed to get hold of him and he's round at the bitches! His mum and dad are gutted, all his friends think he's an idiot and i've give my liver a pounding of 3 weeks none stop drinking with him for nothing. If he get's back with her i'm wiping my hands of him i'm there everytime he needs me, and whenn i need someone hes not there.
I hope he tells her what i said about her and she confronts me ill knock the little shit on her arse!

Can you give me her number?

Drugged_unholy wrote:

The Warlord wrote:My best mate finally got the courage up to dump his girlfriend about 3 weeks ago, the girlfriend that was controlling his life e.g. stopping him seeing his friends & family (he didn't even go out for the birthday meal for his own mother), she told him to quit his job so they could be together more (and thus be away from his friends and family), put him down all the time and said that she'd fuck off and sleep with some one else if they had an argument. Turned him more or less into a drug-addled zombie, (this is the same girl who thinks it's funny to spike peoples drinks, and things have a habit of going missing when she's aroung like mobile phones ect.), she's the most horrid person i've ever met and nobody liked her not his mum and dad,his sister, me or any of his friends. When he finished her he realised that nobody liked her and the reason he finished her was because she was so controlling (she even did the i'm pregnant thing when he ended it, and used all sorts of emotional blackmail like askin him if he didn't care about her daughter which isn't his anyway). So for the past 3 weeks i've more or less lived at his to make sure he's ok and take his mind off it, going drinking, playing on the computer ect. he's started to rebuild his life all our mates were taking him out (male and female), a girl who seemed nice took a fancy to him so they went out a couple of times! He said he had his life back and he was enjoying it. Then he dissapeared around 5pm on Sunday and hasn't been seen since his mobiles been turned off, his mothers been worrying sick. I've just finally managed to get hold of him and he's round at the bitches! His mum and dad are gutted, all his friends think he's an idiot and i've give my liver a pounding of 3 weeks none stop drinking with him for nothing. If he get's back with her i'm wiping my hands of him i'm there everytime he needs me, and whenn i need someone hes not there.
I hope he tells her what i said about her and she confronts me ill knock the little shit on her arse!

Can you give me her number?

Aahahaaaaa.

On a serious note though, thats fucking terrible.
He needs to get rid

Came home after BOA last year to find that my ex fiancee had been on the internet the whole time i was gone, and had met someone online. She left me about a week afterwards cos we were just arguing all the time over the amount of time she was spending online etc. She's since moved up to this pricks place and theyre engaged. Felt like I'd wasted 6 years of my life at the time, have been single ever since, which I hate..
Are there any single metal girls out there? ? Feel free 2 PM me, it would just be nice to talk to a girl thats into the same stuff as me!

Single, and couldn't give a f**k
I'm quite happy with my x-box 360 for support at the moment.

Yeah same, been single for well over a year now and I ain't bothered about it at all!

I'm at that stage where I'm single and content with it, I value the time I get to myself.

*red* wrote:Messed up- Had 2 people tell me they love me.
Also Some random guy I briefly know been sending me facebook messages saying I am hot and he wants to know me better even though he is in a relationship.

Still single as relationships scare me but the worry of missing these opportunities and being single forever is scary.
Should I settle even though deep down it does not feel right just yet?

I thought being single was surposed to be easy!!

When it feels right, go for it - when it doesn't, don't. That's the only advice I can give.

Twaddlefish wrote:I'm at that stage where I'm single and content with it, I value the time I get to myself.

Ive been at that stage for 23 years hahahah !!

Twaddlefish wrote:I'm at that stage where I'm single and content with it, I value the time I get to myself.

I am like this at the moment.

Enjoying being carefree and single and loving it.
Been a long time since I felt like this, and now I am getting the ofers! damn law of sod

There are always pros and cons to being single - some people reach the "I must settle down" point earlier than others!

I have been single for a while (a few months or so) and am mostly content with it for the time being. If an oppertunity was to arise however, I might be interested.

Also, there seems to be an awful lot of 'single' people around who are not single at all and are actaully swingers.

Car keys in the fruitbowl! - NOW!!!!!!