The Relationships Thread

[Smindas]

For the newcomers to this thread, of which there suddenly seem to be many; have you guys read any of Herzsam's posts before? Lighten up.

[Strapping Young Kate]

Assuming that was aimed at me; I am aware.

[Finnvitka]

tbh polyamorous people are more often than not people who dont want to just have one partner because they're greedy or whatever

I mean I may hate relationships as a general rule but when I'm in one, its the one person and one person alone

[Strapping Young Kate]

I completely agree with that. I think a lot of the time people who want to be 'poly' just shouldn't get into relationships in the first place.

[MentalInfestation]

Dunno what you might catch I'd get out of it before you get too attached to her.

[herzeleid]

I will admit what I said, as usual was fairly tongue in cheek with a nugget of pure truth. The whole point of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship should be a commitment to one person based on strong feelings towards them in my lovely opinion. If THAT is even too much for a person to manage, they clearly have something massively wrong with them. Also, it's fairly likely she infact does not have self-respect, and she's trying to fill that massive hole... With cocks.

[Amelia]

For the newcomers to this thread, of which there suddenly seem to be many; have you guys read any of Herzsam's posts before? Lighten up.

i know he is generally a miserable bastard, but playfully insulting someone you know is different from calling someone you don't know a whore with no self respect, especially when he goes on to say that she is clearly not a good person.

[herzeleid]

For the newcomers to this thread, of which there suddenly seem to be many; have you guys read any of Herzsam's posts before? Lighten up.

i know he is generally a miserable bastard, but playfully insulting someone you know is different from calling someone you don't know a whore with no self respect, especially when he goes on to say that she is clearly not a good person.

She's not reading this i'm assuming. Lighten the hell up, it's the internet.

[twilightoftheidols]

For the newcomers to this thread, of which there suddenly seem to be many; have you guys read any of Herzsam's posts before? Lighten up.

i know he is generally a miserable bastard, but playfully insulting someone you know is different from calling someone you don't know a whore with no self respect, especially when he goes on to say that she is clearly not a good person.

its the internet

[Jobdone]

Also, it's fairly likely she infact does not have self-respect, and she's trying to fill that massive hole... With cocks.

[Littlemissmetal]

Lighten up, seriously.

And actually, whether they would put it the same way or not, I think the majority of people probably share his opinion on the situation. I certainly do, for one. In my opinion if you can't handle monogamy, stay the hell out of relationships.

[twilightoftheidols]

The funny thing is that shes probably complaining to someone and saying "FFS my bf is so controlling, he wont even let me sleep with other guys!"

[Smindas]

For the newcomers to this thread, of which there suddenly seem to be many; have you guys read any of Herzsam's posts before? Lighten up.

i know he is generally a miserable bastard, but playfully insulting someone you know is different from calling someone you don't know a whore with no self respect, especially when he goes on to say that she is clearly not a good person.

She's not reading this i'm assuming. Lighten the hell up, it's the internet.

Don't worry Sam, you're still the people's bitter and unrelenting voice

[Amelia]

For the newcomers to this thread, of which there suddenly seem to be many; have you guys read any of Herzsam's posts before? Lighten up.

i know he is generally a miserable bastard, but playfully insulting someone you know is different from calling someone you don't know a whore with no self respect, especially when he goes on to say that she is clearly not a good person.

She's not reading this i'm assuming. Lighten the hell up, it's the internet.

it was the "nugget of pure truth" in what you said that i was rolling my eyes at to begin with. i don't seriously think you want the girl to kill herself and i realize that what you said was mostly tongue in cheek. i just don't think theres anything wrong with being poly or that people who are have no self respect. and as i'm not upset, i can't really lighten up more.

[Amelia]

The funny thing is that shes probably complaining to someone and saying "FFS my bf is so controlling, he wont even let me sleep with other guys!"

hardly. like i said before, i'm not poly. i just don't think that people who are wired differently than me have something wrong with them.