Fucking hell, Mike.
Once again, all I can offer is one of these lame hugs.
What's upset you?
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Shit, Mike, that's awful to hear. So so many e-hugs for you.
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Christ, hope you're gonna be alright. *shite hug gif with sincere intent*
Luke_X wrote:Got a ruler out and I measure it about 11 inches. Which pretty good value in my mind.
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Sorry to hear that, Mike. My condolences to yourself and your friend's family. .
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Fjar wrote:Christ, hope you're gonna be alright. *shite hug gif with sincere intent*
I don't know what to say. I'll just echo this.
Jesus...
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This probably won't mean much coming from the forum, but I think you'll have the support of any of us if you need it. Very sorry to hear it mate.
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thanks guys, your crappy e-hugs are appreciated. it's hard to believe, really. i hadnt talked to him for a while but by all accounts he was doing pretty well, after things going badly wrong for him when he left school, just for this to happen. i cant pretend that he was totally innocent and nothing happened to provoke the scumbag who did it, but he didnt deserve this.
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no one deserves that really unless they'd done something truly horrendous. Sorry to hear it mate *e-hug*
So after a month of living together my housemate and I finally realised how much we like each other 2 nights ago. So now after 2 really great days filled with hugging and kissing she has to go home to Wales for 3 weeks, both of us were really upset when we said goodbye this morning. This combined with the january weather in july and a very busy shift at work ahead of me means a pretty shitty day after a run of almost a month of good days. Thank fuck for Maiden tomorrow, Battles In T'North this weekend and Bloodstock the weekend after to cheer me up.
So after a month of living together my housemate and I finally realised how much we like each other 2 nights ago. So now after 2 really great days filled with hugging and kissing she has to go home to Wales for 3 weeks, both of us were really upset when we said goodbye this morning. This combined with the january weather in july and a very busy shift at work ahead of me means a pretty shitty day after a run of almost a month of good days. Thank fuck for Maiden tomorrow, Battles In T'North this weekend and Bloodstock the weekend after to cheer me up.
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For fuck sake. I know some of you will have read on here the stuff I went into about my parents... well, after them not speaking to me for like 6 months I get a missed call. My mums panicked as my brothers tried to kill himself. I am upset and fucking livid at the same time. Hes just turned 18 so its obviously an age thing but I know exactly what he will be thinking and they wont be doing anything to help as per fucking usual. Hes started smoking and leaving the house and wandering about in town at night for countless hours She said they found letters under his bed and a list of who he wants to say bye to. His mates have been saying hes been going on about missing me aswell. They are absolutely fucking useless. Its got me in a very awkward mindset and im trying my best to not say the wrong thing (as much as theyll be home truths)... Gonna get him on the phone and give him someone to actually fucking talk to. For fuck sake.
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Kylan_Paassa wrote:For fuck sake. I know some of you will have read on here the stuff I went into about my parents... well, after them not speaking to me for like 6 months I get a missed call. My mums panicked as my brothers tried to kill himself. I am upset and fucking livid at the same time. Hes just turned 18 so its obviously an age thing but I know exactly what he will be thinking and they wont be doing anything to help as per fucking usual. Hes started smoking and leaving the house and wandering about in town at night for countless hours She said they found letters under his bed and a list of who he wants to say bye to. His mates have been saying hes been going on about missing me aswell. They are absolutely fucking useless. Its got me in a very awkward mindset and im trying my best to not say the wrong thing (as much as theyll be home truths)... Gonna get him on the phone and give him someone to actually fucking talk to. For fuck sake.
Shit man, that's heavy Hope everything gets sorted out for you and your brother.
This seems a bit weak saying it over the internet...
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Kylan_Paassa wrote:For fuck sake. I know some of you will have read on here the stuff I went into about my parents... well, after them not speaking to me for like 6 months I get a missed call. My mums panicked as my brothers tried to kill himself. I am upset and fucking livid at the same time. Hes just turned 18 so its obviously an age thing but I know exactly what he will be thinking and they wont be doing anything to help as per fucking usual. Hes started smoking and leaving the house and wandering about in town at night for countless hours She said they found letters under his bed and a list of who he wants to say bye to. His mates have been saying hes been going on about missing me aswell. They are absolutely fucking useless. Its got me in a very awkward mindset and im trying my best to not say the wrong thing (as much as theyll be home truths)... Gonna get him on the phone and give him someone to actually fucking talk to. For fuck sake.
That's a harsh thing for you to have to deal with. I hope it all works out OK for you and your brother.
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Heavy is how I'd describe it too. Hope it all sorts out soon.
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e-hug to mike also, thats terrible.
Am I right in thinking the best thing to do is just let him know im there and to listen to him? He recently got a tattoo which he tagged me in on facebook about needing people there to give a fuck. Didnt realise it was anything more sinister but as im at uni and my parents are totally ignorant to like everything im quite shocked. I just dont want him doing anything stupid as I dont think he is old enough to properly understand and is just feeling lonely. Was gonna see if he wanted to come down here for a few days to get away from whatever it is. I know he split up with his girlfriend not long back and has been going on about how he wanted to marry her. Again, the age and concept thing. Ive a feeling he will have been down about my dad constantly ripping him about his weight, too. Hes quite naive and sensitive aside from how he acts as if nothing bothers him. I was the same I guess. The mother said first time round he tried to mix some sort of pills with a fuckload of booze in the hope of like not waking up. It scares me that hes even thinking that.
Am I right in thinking the best thing to do is just let him know im there and to listen to him? He recently got a tattoo which he tagged me in on facebook about needing people there to give a fuck. Didnt realise it was anything more sinister but as im at uni and my parents are totally ignorant to like everything im quite shocked. I just dont want him doing anything stupid as I dont think he is old enough to properly understand and is just feeling lonely. Was gonna see if he wanted to come down here for a few days to get away from whatever it is. I know he split up with his girlfriend not long back and has been going on about how he wanted to marry her. Again, the age and concept thing. Ive a feeling he will have been down about my dad constantly ripping him about his weight, too. Hes quite naive and sensitive aside from how he acts as if nothing bothers him. I was the same I guess. The mother said first time round he tried to mix some sort of pills with a fuckload of booze in the hope of like not waking up. It scares me that hes even thinking that.
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Kylan_Paassa wrote:e-hug to mike also, thats terrible.
Am I right in thinking the best thing to do is just let him know im there and to listen to him? He recently got a tattoo which he tagged me in on facebook about needing people there to give a fuck. Didnt realise it was anything more sinister but as im at uni and my parents are totally ignorant to like everything im quite shocked. I just dont want him doing anything stupid as I dont think he is old enough to properly understand and is just feeling lonely. Was gonna see if he wanted to come down here for a few days to get away from whatever it is. I know he split up with his girlfriend not long back and has been going on about how he wanted to marry her. Again, the age and concept thing. Ive a feeling he will have been down about my dad constantly ripping him about his weight, too. Hes quite naive and sensitive aside from how he acts as if nothing bothers him. I was the same I guess. The mother said first time round he tried to mix some sort of pills with a fuckload of booze in the hope of like not waking up. It scares me that hes even thinking that.
Yeah, totally, the best thing is just to let him know he does have someone who cares about him and how he's feeling. That sort of assurance is invaluable to someone in any kind of vulnerable state.
I think asking him if he wants to visit you is a good idea too - it sounds to me like home isn't the most friendly environment for him right now. However, you shouldn't have to deal with it alone. Perhaps a word to your other family members might be worth a shot as well?
Luke_X wrote:Got a ruler out and I measure it about 11 inches. Which pretty good value in my mind.
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Kylan_Paassa wrote:e-hug to mike also, thats terrible.
Am I right in thinking the best thing to do is just let him know im there and to listen to him?
I do think knowing somebody is on his side and willing to listen would help a fair bit.