Metalchemyst wrote:It is a normal, traditional social attitude
That might be a 'traditional' attitude, but times have changed. People are no longer uncomfortable with the idea of being considered gay.
I'm happy to hear from anyone else who might feel this way, but as far as I'm aware, the general feeling is that no-one is remotely bothered about being seen as effeminate and even less that they're seen as gay (and I know many masculine gay men so that doesn't even make sense to me).