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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby florencethemachine » Thu May 08, 2014 7:32 pm

I've been with my girlfriend for five years and we met through work. Though I do admit, it helps when one of you is the boss :D .
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jage » Thu May 08, 2014 7:34 pm

metalsam wrote:Go gay?


If being gay didn't involve shagging men it wouldn't be all that bad, I imagine.

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Postby Tet » Thu May 08, 2014 8:42 pm

Applecore wrote:If I was told by the guy she'd cheated with, sure, there'd be some resentment towards him.

Surely it would make more sense to be resentful towards her?
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby TheLotusEater193 » Thu May 08, 2014 9:04 pm

florencethemachine wrote:I've been with my girlfriend for five years and we met through work. Though I do admit, it helps when one of you is the boss :D .

My boyfriend was my boss, though we've both gone to different jobs now.

I think workplace relationships can work if, as others have said, it's kept professional. When you're in work you're in work, not touching up your other half. Sickly public displays of affection are bad at the best of times, let alone in a professional environment.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby florencethemachine » Fri May 09, 2014 1:10 am

TheLotusEater193 wrote:
florencethemachine wrote:I've been with my girlfriend for five years and we met through work. Though I do admit, it helps when one of you is the boss :D .

My boyfriend was my boss, though we've both gone to different jobs now.

I think workplace relationships can work if, as others have said, it's kept professional. When you're in work you're in work, not touching up your other half. Sickly public displays of affection are bad at the best of times, let alone in a professional environment.


Very true. I can understand how so many people consider work relationships a no-go. But it does depend on your working circumstances and whether or not you can remain professional. I know for a fact that over the years there has been some serious genital chess played in various inappropriate locations in my workplace.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Nantha » Fri May 09, 2014 8:05 am

I share a workplace with my fella but we've never been working there at the same time yet, and we'd most likely be in different departments. I quite like the idea of it but couldn't do it every day.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jage » Fri May 09, 2014 8:18 am

when i broke up with some girl who was in my classes at uni it created quite a bit of shit.

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Postby kanet666 » Fri May 09, 2014 10:43 am

Jage wrote:when i broke up with some girl who was in my classes at uni it created quite a bit of shit.


I'm sure you managed to go about that in a particularly tactful and inoffensive manner.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jage » Fri May 09, 2014 11:59 am

yeah i used my skills as a tactician and a diplomat to limit the disruption to her cycles.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Turbo » Fri May 09, 2014 12:49 pm

Jage wrote:when i broke up with some girl who was in my classes at uni it created quite a bit of shit.



Yeah because your girlfriend is the same part of your body that holds a pen to write notes yeah?

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jage » Fri May 09, 2014 2:20 pm

ooooh wounded

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby TheLotusEater193 » Fri May 09, 2014 7:29 pm

Nantha wrote:I share a workplace with my fella but we've never been working there at the same time yet, and we'd most likely be in different departments. I quite like the idea of it but couldn't do it every day.

Yeah, to be fair I don't think it's a particularly healthy way to have a relationship. Sometimes you need time apart from each other and the idea of being forced into seeing one another in the workplace after an argument or something sounds pretty hellish.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby mikeftw » Tue May 13, 2014 10:44 pm

Well things are looking promising in my relationship status atm
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Postby Applecore » Wed May 14, 2014 7:57 am

Turbo wrote:
Jage wrote:when i broke up with some girl who was in my classes at uni it created quite a bit of shit.



Yeah because your girlfriend is the same part of your body that holds a pen to write notes yeah?

This just made me laugh like Muttley and get a weird look from my dog :lol:
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby mikeftw » Thu May 15, 2014 12:06 am

I'm kinda unsingle now
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