The Relationships Thread

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Ndnd » Thu Sep 11, 2014 11:54 am

:hug:
We need a meet up when I get back from trip.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby herzeleid » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:37 pm

Tet wrote:
Ndnd wrote:It hurts at first but then in the future there will be a time you wonder what they are up to and check their profile to see that they are with someone and happy and you have only amazing positive happy feelings for them.

100% this. It took me a long time to get there last time it happened. But I'm genuinely happy for her and wish her only the best.


From a less positivity inclined person's perspective, I found that it was replaced with a general apathy. Like seeing a facebook friend you barely know announce on facebook they're in a relationship. You're not happy, but that's because it has no bearing on you either way.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Tet » Thu Sep 11, 2014 5:09 pm

Ndnd wrote::hug:
We need a meet up when I get back from trip.

Yes indeed. When are you back?
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby bloodfiend » Wed Sep 17, 2014 12:11 pm

It would appear to be my 4 year anniversary with my gf today, that's gone quick.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby tranmerefan » Tue Sep 30, 2014 6:38 pm

Haven't had date #2 yet from the girl I met on Thursday but I've spent about 40 mins on the phone chatting tonight. It's looking positive at the minute.

So positive I'm not going to spend all evening sending opening messages on POF etc like I normally do when I've got no plans :lol: I'm at a loss at what to do now :lol:
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Podgie. » Tue Sep 30, 2014 7:31 pm

That's probably a good sign man, I know you're only just getting to know one another but if you can spend 40mins talking on the phone without silences / getting bored / running out of things to say / ask, then - :yes:

As for myself, I met up with a Spanish girl last Friday (I say Spanish but she was born in Chile, lived in Spain... and France), anyway we had a couple of beers and I gave her a bit of a free English lesson. I had to be up before 6 for work the following morning so I said I was going to call it a night, she then pretty much invited herself back to my place, I said I sleep on the floor at the moment and the only bedding I have is a sleeping bag - she said she didn't care - I said if I told you I wasn't going to have sex with you would you still want to come? She said yes. I thought she was a little mad, but we went home together anyway. She came onto me, we had sex, I had a headache all day the next day from partying too hard on a school night and now I feel really bad because I never have "one night stands" and more than anything, she really likes me now and I don't really feel the same!! :? :thud: ...The End

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jage » Tue Sep 30, 2014 8:02 pm

i still don't know what to do. there's no whining, no butthurt, no insecurity, particularly, I just don't know what I'm supposed to do, bar get a room do by business. even then, what next? dunno.

i know i still love my own company though.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Bizza » Fri Oct 03, 2014 7:56 pm

Been awhile since I had anything to post in this thread but I finally took the plunge and signed up to Plenty Of Fish last week and messaged a few people without success. Until today! Now chatting to a cute geeky girl about Doctor Who. Fingers crossed :D
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Gandalf the Red » Fri Oct 03, 2014 8:02 pm

It's always good to talk about your enemy.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Turbo » Sat Oct 04, 2014 1:16 pm

Jage wrote:i still don't know what to do.





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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby peypea » Sun Oct 05, 2014 8:18 pm

Oh my god I asked someone out and they said yes.

Just.
Holy shit.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Smindas » Sun Oct 05, 2014 8:41 pm

Playaaaaaaaaah.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Turbo » Sun Oct 05, 2014 8:47 pm

Excellent Ania, fair play :yes: :yes: :D . I hope it goes splendid!

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby JamieH » Sun Oct 05, 2014 9:02 pm

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jobdone » Sun Oct 05, 2014 9:11 pm

peypea wrote:Oh my god I asked someone out and they said yes.

Just.
Holy shit.


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