The Relationships Thread

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Katesyl » Wed Feb 17, 2016 9:10 pm

fluffymoo wrote:Got dumped.

Wow, shit, so sorry to hear that. No hope for the rest of us then.

I really really like one of my colleagues. Female colleagues. This is new.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Nantha » Thu Feb 18, 2016 7:42 pm

Bisset wrote:Without going into it, unless you place a lot of stock in Valentines Day then it's just another day. Yeah I get the fact he was away for 10 days and it would have been nice but I do think you're overthinking it. Don't worry that bonce of yours.

Yeah you're totally right, I had a little moan to get it off my chest and he reminded me that he'd taken me out to a Michelin star restaurant in Bali as an early valentines treat and I tell you, never have I felt more PROPER stupid. 100% over it now

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby fluffymoo » Mon Feb 22, 2016 10:24 am

I've just started to pack all my stuff in to boxes... Need a lot more boxes. It's weird packing my life up like this for the third time in three years. I thought we'd be moving to a house when this was going to happen next. I think I'm moving back to Sweden asap.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Nantha » Mon Feb 22, 2016 12:46 pm

I had a feeling you would make that decision. I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you, it must feel like the ground has disappeared. But you'll find your feet again :)

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby fluffymoo » Mon Feb 22, 2016 4:53 pm

Nantha wrote:I had a feeling you would make that decision. I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you, it must feel like the ground has disappeared. But you'll find your feet again :)


Thanks Hannah x

I'm still in denial, and I'm so fucking disappointed. Apparently he "put up with me for 9 years". Just, wow. I knew I had issues, but I didn't know I was that much of a fucking burden. I'll be referred to as the "crazy ex" methinks.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby peypea » Mon Feb 22, 2016 5:28 pm

You will never be the crazy ex because you aren't crazy. I can understand it's awful, but try and use this as a way to be more badass than ever before. Use the energy to work on yourself. We all have issues, and we all get swamped in them and overwhelmed sometimes. But you will be fine. Just take the time you need to heal.
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Postby Tet » Mon Feb 22, 2016 8:07 pm

fluffymoo wrote:Apparently he "put up with me for 9 years". Just, wow. I knew I had issues, but I didn't know I was that much of a fucking burden. I'll be referred to as the "crazy ex" methinks.

Just be wary of putting too much store by the wording of things said during a breakup. One of my exes said some things that I found incredibly hurtful at the time. It wasn't until many years later that I realised it was just that she was struggling to find the words to say what she actually wanted to say. Will you be referred to as the "crazy ex"? I have no idea. But remember that what others may choose to say about you has no bearing on who you are. I don't exactly see you very often, but still I'll be sad to see you go back to Sweden.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Katesyl » Wed Feb 24, 2016 3:07 pm

I am almost certainly the crazy ex. But seeing some of the people they've resorted to after, I'll take a bit of mental instability any day. :shy:

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby peypea » Thu Mar 17, 2016 9:04 am

GUYS. The unimaginable has happened. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. Who isn't a druggie cunt and is one of the nicest guys I've ever known and I can be totally myself around and I'm so smitten *__*
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Turbo » Thu Mar 17, 2016 1:05 pm

Really happy theres some good news in this thread again. Fair play you! :yes:

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby peypea » Fri Mar 18, 2016 7:58 am

HAhaha thanks! It's nice to be bringing good news for once :D
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jobdone » Fri Mar 18, 2016 8:04 am

That's awesome Ania, gratsgrats :D
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Postby tranmerefan » Fri Mar 18, 2016 7:21 pm

That's ace :D
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Tet » Mon Mar 21, 2016 5:15 pm

Having met him, I can confirm this - she's not making it up :-) Glad to see things working out for you.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby NeglectedField » Mon Mar 21, 2016 5:57 pm

Yeah, he's dead sound like.