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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jim » Thu Feb 04, 2010 7:02 pm

My advice is not to see it as "friendzone" because that mindset can be limiting (in not what you can do but you end up thinking "What if")

Just enjoy each other's company and then if something happens then it happens.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby RB2610 » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:08 pm

It seems like she just wants to remain friends Applecore, I wouldn't get your hopes up unfortunately, like one time I got friendzoned, the week after she invited me to a party where she was the only person I knew, it was just as friends though, so I reckon it's probably a similar thing in your case.

I hope I'm wrong though :)
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby wintermourn » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:09 pm

take ryans advice... he's the master of the friendzone :eyes: *runs* :lol:
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Postby MotorAmarth » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:10 pm

I'd just see what happens, but don't get your hopes up.
That way, if something does happen, it's all brilliant, but if it doesn't then it won't hit as hard

Hope it's good for you though :hug:
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Postby Fjar » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:25 pm

siliconfury wrote:My advice is not to see it as "friendzone" because that mindset can be limiting (in not what you can do but you end up thinking "What if")

Just enjoy each other's company and then if something happens then it happens.


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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Applecore » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:30 pm

If the friendzone was a person, I'd kick it in the dick so hard.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby MotorAmarth » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:31 pm

Applecore wrote:If the friendzone was a person, I'd kick it in the dick so hard.


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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby wintermourn » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:32 pm

Fjar wrote:
siliconfury wrote:My advice is not to see it as "friendzone" because that mindset can be limiting (in not what you can do but you end up thinking "What if")

Just enjoy each other's company and then if something happens then it happens.


This. :yes:



i agree actually

went out with a girl , we broke up , i still liked her , we stayed friends as in i got put in the friendzone , then suddenly we were seeing each other again

but once i came to uni that ended anyways
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Luke_X » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:53 pm

being friendzoned isnt fun. i actually got slapped for telling a girl to fuck off when she friendzoned me after the many things that happened. however i suggest not doing that.

like whats already been said. dont go there in the mentallity of friends, just enjoy yaself. if something happens it happens, if not then drown your sorrows with a couple of pints and some obnoxious shouting at strangers. works well for me.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Calibur » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:55 pm

Yeah...I amen I know it's easier said than done, but just treat it as normal. If your mind is constantly picking up on "what did that mean" kinda stuff, it'll just influence your behaviour and have you at constant unease.

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Postby Danroush » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:57 pm

Calibur wrote:Yeah...I amen I know it's easier said than done, but just treat it as normal. If your mind is constantly picking up on "what did that mean" kinda stuff, it'll just influence your behaviour and have you at constant unease.


But on the other hand if you don't think about it enough, you might end up not realising something important
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