The Relationships Thread

[Smee]

Bitches do make life quite entertaining to be honest.

[Finnvitka]

I have the weirdest relationships with my exes. One is a very close friend and will phone at random times and just pass the phone to his current girlfriend, who is absolutely lovely.

The other one.. well. It's all very mental.

[krampus]

Exes are a funny thing. I'm definitely civil with them and keep in touch. Having slept with someone does naturally mean you have invested in their company (using the stock market analogy) and would like to keep tabs on them. But then again I've never experienced traumatic/mental shitstorms in relationships.

The current one is perfect. He likes our distance (4 hours by train) and we do our own thing and hang out sometimes if we have time for each other. No desire from either side to get married, move in together, or have kids. We're both really into doing our own thing. I have no complaints.

[Dan Jenkins]

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[krampus]

Having drama with exes isn't my prerogative. Can't think of any I wouldn't be fine to spend time with now, irrespective of the same problems that drove us apart possibly (or in some cases definitely) still being present. I've forgiven them any wrong doings against me, that's the important thing.

Yeah, every time I hear someone refer to their "EVIL ASSHOLE EX" I feel grateful that I've not been that wronged/disserviced by someone to the point where I am angry and bitter about it years later.

I am a "Powermetal Child" now. Can I keep it that way without quitting posting? I rather like this title.

[Littlemissmetal]

EDIT: Never mind!

[missb0mb]

Having drama with exes isn't my prerogative. Can't think of any I wouldn't be fine to spend time with now, irrespective of the same problems that drove us apart possibly (or in some cases definitely) still being present. I've forgiven them any wrong doings against me, that's the important thing.

But have they forgiven you??

[Cookie_]

I like my relationship

[Leleanor]

Me and Mark split up last night,. He's got A LOT on atm and isn't dealing with the sstress well and needs space and doesn't want to have to feel like he has to see me when he needs alone time. He said that once he gets his head sorted out he'll probably want me back but doesn't want me to wait around for him if I found someone else.
I'm more upset than I'd expected seeing as I'd only know him less than 2 months but I thought we'd really got summat good going. Oh well, guess I just gotta wait and see if he can get his head sorted and want me back
xxx

[Cookie_]

Me and Mark split up last night,. He's got A LOT on atm and isn't dealing with the sstress well and needs space and doesn't want to have to feel like he has to see me when he needs alone time. He said that once he gets his head sorted out he'll probably want me back but doesn't want me to wait around for him if I found someone else.
I'm more upset than I'd expected seeing as I'd only know him less than 2 months but I thought we'd really got summat good going. Oh well, guess I just gotta wait and see if he can get his head sorted and want me back
xxx

Aww sorry to hear that sweetie

[Bisset]

Sorry to hear that, it's never easy to go through that

In regards to Facebook and exes, I still have my ex on there, mainly because I'm too lazy/ cowardly to deal with the nuclear fallout that would occur if I delete her because we 'agreed to be friends' even after she chucked me twice during a period of four years. So I just tend to ignore anything she says and live in the blissfully peaceful place known as my mind.

[Leleanor]

Things between me and one of me exes are VERY tense, not spoken (well screamed) to him since blodostock

Second ex just cba to talk to and make no effort but don't shun him. It was a 2 week thing and he was a sexist prat, I'm not fussed lol

Third ex I'm still friends with but we never talk for the same reason we broke up: he's just too bloody lazy about everything and CBA.

the guy I broke up with last nigth we agreed to stay in touch and still be mates though I did admit to him that it'd be hard ass I still ahve quite strong feelings for him. I'm just gonna give him the space he wants and wait for him to get himself sorted out and hope that at that time he still feels the same way about me.
xxx

[Cookie_]

(Not counting the silly 2 week year 7 / 8 things here)
1) The small, pre-puberty boy - Still friends, he's an awesome lad
2) The cheating 'metal' country boy - Raarrr, he cheated on me from the beginning. Not spoken to him since, doubt I ever will.
3) The biggest prick on this planet. - Oh. My. Lord. I think he's the one who keeps hacking me.

Current boyfriend - NOODLE! <3 <3 Couldn't have asked for more in a man...

[Moonburp]

I'm friends with all of my exes apart from the one who cheated on me with my best friend when I was passed out on new years eve.

[Littlemissmetal]

Sorry to hear that Leleanor.

I'd like to think my ex and I could end up being civil in the long run, just purely because of the length of time we were together. I don't see the point in holding grudges over past hurts when you've moved on, so forgiving him in the end wouldn't be too much of an issue.

But I can't see it. He's still in that "OMG you left me for someone else (not true), I've been so wronged, emo emo whinge whinge ad nauseum." stage.

Bitter and twisted doesn't really cover his attitude towards me