The Relationships Thread

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby sickpuppy » Sun Oct 23, 2011 2:57 pm

JrHunter wrote:
sickpuppy wrote:Not sure what to do.
Been wit my boyfriend for tree years. Love him to bits but last nit I went out wit boyfriends and friends and got chatting to tis eighteen year old rocker- im twenty nine, very sexy and nice guy. Just moved ere for uni and knows some of my friends. Well we ended up kissing a bit even tough i told him I already ave a boyfriend. It was bot of us tat made it happen but nothing else occurred and we did not kiss again.
Feel really bad and now don't know what to do.
So confused.

if i say anything to him e will o mental which I do not blame him for. But cant loose him and feel awful.

So confused


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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Corpse_Flower » Sun Oct 23, 2011 2:59 pm

Jage wrote:forget about the new guy and try harder with your man.


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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby sickpuppy » Sun Oct 23, 2011 2:59 pm

Jage wrote:forget about the new guy and try harder with your man.

Dont really want the new Guy. Just feel really guilty about it all.

I worship my boyfriend Chris, he is amazing but well plays computer games all day, hates rock music, never goes to gigs wit me and suppose it was nice meeting someone who was fun, likes similar things and finds me attractive
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Matty_the_Emo_Slayer » Sun Oct 23, 2011 3:52 pm

sickpuppy wrote:
Jage wrote:forget about the new guy and try harder with your man.

Dont really want the new Guy. Just feel really guilty about it all.

I worship my boyfriend Chris, he is amazing but well plays computer games all day, hates rock music, never goes to gigs wit me and suppose it was nice meeting someone who was fun, likes similar things and finds me attractive


so really he's anything but amazing?
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Postby keera_envenomed » Sun Oct 23, 2011 4:11 pm

Matty_the_Emo_Slayer wrote:
sickpuppy wrote:
Jage wrote:forget about the new guy and try harder with your man.

Dont really want the new Guy. Just feel really guilty about it all.

I worship my boyfriend Chris, he is amazing but well plays computer games all day, hates rock music, never goes to gigs wit me and suppose it was nice meeting someone who was fun, likes similar things and finds me attractive


so really he's anything but amazing?


Yeah - he sounds like a bit of a loser.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby sickpuppy » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:00 pm

Matty_the_Emo_Slayer wrote:
sickpuppy wrote:
Jage wrote:forget about the new guy and try harder with your man.

Dont really want the new Guy. Just feel really guilty about it all.

I worship my boyfriend Chris, he is amazing but well plays computer games all day, hates rock music, never goes to gigs wit me and suppose it was nice meeting someone who was fun, likes similar things and finds me attractive


so really he's anything but amazing?


is he still really nice, just a emo geek. If I end it Im alone and will loose all my friends. easier this way, too complicated otherwise
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jobdone » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:03 pm

sickpuppy wrote:If I end it Im alone and will loose all my friends. easier this way, too complicated otherwise


Well fuck.

Your relationship sounds incredibly unhealthy for you.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Finnvitka » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:04 pm

yeah seriously staying together out of convenience is a stupid thing to do!
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby drummerduba » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:06 pm

It sounds like, sub-consciously, you're not truly happy with your current relationship, proven by your actions with this other guy, and pointing out his faults on a public forum...maybe it's time to rethink things...

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Postby Ensorcelled » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:07 pm

sickpuppy wrote:
mcroper wrote:
sickpuppy wrote:Not sure what to do.
Been wit my boyfriend for tree years. Love him to bits but last nit I went out wit boyfriends and friends and got chatting to tis eighteen year old rocker- im twenty nine, very sexy and nice guy. Just moved ere for uni and knows some of my friends. Well we ended up kissing a bit even tough i told him I already ave a boyfriend. It was bot of us tat made it happen but nothing else occurred and we did not kiss again.
Feel really bad and now don't know what to do.
So confused.

if i say anything to him e will o mental which I do not blame him for. But cant loose him and feel awful.

So confused

Is your keyboard missing keys?



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I'll ignore that comment and go on thinking you're Jamaican, like I originally did.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby GetToTheChoppar » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:13 pm

Ensorcelled wrote:I'll ignore that comment and go on thinking you're Jamaican, like I originally did.

Cannot un...read?
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Postby peypea » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:17 pm

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby sickpuppy » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:23 pm

drummerduba wrote:It sounds like, sub-consciously, you're not truly happy with your current relationship, proven by your actions with this other guy, and pointing out his faults on a public forum...maybe it's time to rethink things...


I know. Known this a while but never broken up with someone before, don't know how to.

Well no-one on here knows who he is and he is not on this forum. Just needed to talk about it to put my mind to rest about whether I should leave him.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby drummerduba » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:26 pm

sickpuppy wrote:
drummerduba wrote:It sounds like, sub-consciously, you're not truly happy with your current relationship, proven by your actions with this other guy, and pointing out his faults on a public forum...maybe it's time to rethink things...


I know. Known this a while but never broken up with someone before, don't know how to.

Well no-one on here knows who he is and he is not on this forum. Just needed to talk about it to put my mind to rest about whether I should leave him.


Break ups are only difficult if you make them difficult...I know this from experience...best to just grow a pair and get it out there before things get worse.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Corpse_Flower » Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:27 pm

sickpuppy wrote:
drummerduba wrote:It sounds like, sub-consciously, you're not truly happy with your current relationship, proven by your actions with this other guy, and pointing out his faults on a public forum...maybe it's time to rethink things...


I know. Known this a while but never broken up with someone before, don't know how to.

Well no-one on here knows who he is and he is not on this forum. Just needed to talk about it to put my mind to rest about whether I should leave him.


You're clearly not happy love, you need to to what will make you happy not other people.
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