The Relationships Thread

[Tet]

I just needed to vent, sort of stuck between shocked, hurt and furious over here.

I've avoided doing so for various reasons, but I'm in exactly the same position right now. I'm at the lowest I've been for well over a decade

[metalsam]

@CelestialWishDaniel

Shit, that sucks.

On the plus side, she's probably not someone you'd want to be involved with. Find her boyfriend and let him know she's a cheat (unless she only met him after you guys did the dirty).

[Tet]

Most blokes wouldn't think twice about hitting or even killing somebody that has been with "His Woman"

I can only assume you know a very different cross section of society to me. While I acknowledge that it happens, I'd say resorting to physical violence was relatively rare in that situation.

[CelestialWishDaniel]

@CelestialWishDaniel

Shit, that sucks.

On the plus side, she's probably not someone you'd want to be involved with. Find her boyfriend and let him know she's a cheat (unless she only met him after you guys did the dirty).

Frankly, it feels like I've been cheated on, because it wasn't even a drunk accident or what have you, it was us having a day together over at my house and it got a bit romantic, call me old fashioned, but I didn't think I needed to say 'So wanna be in a relationship with me?' after kissing started xD

Must admit, kind of tempted to send her boyfriend a message, however, I know that won't achieve anything, I mean, yeah, a message saying 'Your girlfriend was in my bed two days before you got together' could do some damage, but that won't make things as they were before, at the end of the day, she's the one that did it, so getting into a fight with her boyfriend would just be pointless, as it's misguided anger. I have a week of shows ahead, anyway, so this couldn't have come at a better time, I can use this week to get over her and keep myself busy, I reckon.

[metalsam]

What I meant was, if she was with the guy when she slept with you, and you didn't know, you're saving this guy by letting him know his girlfriend is a skank.

If she slept with you, then got with him, kinda tough titties and that totally sucks.

[Fjar]

Most blokes

It's rare.

[Moonburp]

What I meant was, if she was with the guy when she slept with you, and you didn't know, you're saving this guy by letting him know his girlfriend is a skank.

If she slept with you, then got with him, kinda tough titties and that totally sucks.

Yeah, if my girlfriend was cheating on me I'd want to fucking know.

[AnnihiSlateR]

But on the other hand, can what you don't know hurt you? Like is ignorance bliss?

I don't know by the way, that's more a rhetorical.

Could you forgive a girlfriend if she cheated?

[metalsam]

But on the other hand, can what you don't know hurt you? Like is ignorance bliss?

I don't know by the way, that's more a rhetorical.

Could you forgive a girlfriend if she cheated?

Are you saying you'd be fine with your girlfriend being the town bus aslong as you didn't know?

[AnnihiSlateR]

I'm not saying that no. I was asking questions.

I think the answer probably varies with the situation. There's a difference between a one off, and one every other week.

[Potato-Jim]

What I meant was, if she was with the guy when she slept with you, and you didn't know, you're saving this guy by letting him know his girlfriend is a skank.

If she slept with you, then got with him, kinda tough titties and that totally sucks.

Yeah, if my girlfriend was cheating on me I'd want to fucking know.

TRUTH.


Though fuck me if I could advise you on how to go about doing that. Fucking hell.

[Moonburp]

Two people at work got together and can't see it developing well. Do workplace relationships ever work?

[Fjar]

Two people at work got together and can't see it developing well. Do workplace relationships ever work?

Only if they break up.

[mikeftw]

Two people at work got together and can't see it developing well. Do workplace relationships ever work?

Hit and miss at my workplace, had a couple of marriages, had a few that haven't gone so well

[Nantha]

I work with quite a lot of couples, haven't experienced a car crash yet though, can imagine it's pretty dire when it happens