The Relationships Thread

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Bisset » Wed Apr 11, 2012 7:20 am

Fjar wrote:Sometimes we can go for hours without a meaningful conversation, just "You want a cup of tea?" or "What's on TV?". Just being in the general vicinity of each other is enough. I'd probably get sick of cuddles if that's all we did, sometimes we just can't be arsed, and we generally spend whole evenings doing different things.

Bedtime is cuddle time. :D


The sign of a comfortable relationship I'd say. I do miss the companionship but I've been thinking about it more recently and I think the reason that I started getting so miserable was due to the fact my ex as never around when I was. Her sleeping pattern was so fucked that she'd stay up all night when I when I was asleep, she'd sleep til 5, she went to London/ Manchester about 3 times a month at the tail end of last year.

Also (and Moo will get this I hope) when she was raiding in Warcraft she didn't like using 'push to talk' so I couldn't even be in the same room as her for four hours every 3 or so nights.

Basically I ended up being lonely in my own house while she was there. so in short - I'd take companionship over fucking and cuddles (although a nice mix would have been nice)
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Littlemissmetal » Wed Apr 11, 2012 7:37 am

Fjar wrote:Sometimes we can go for hours without a meaningful conversation, just "You want a cup of tea?" or "What's on TV?". Just being in the general vicinity of each other is enough. I'd probably get sick of cuddles if that's all we did, sometimes we just can't be arsed, and we generally spend whole evenings doing different things.

Bedtime is cuddle time. :D


I expect to revert to something closer to this when I move to York - I'm getting a Book Corner (big comfy chair and a bookcase) so I think I'll be living in there with the cat whilst Alex games in the evening (serious boyfriend points awarded here - it's not quite the library Belle got in Beauty and the Beast, but it's the same principle! :D)

Either that or we'll both be gaming in the study and be having arguments as to who has to pause "this incredibly important bit" to make a cuppa :lol:

At the moment, we only see each other at weekends so cuddles are priority! That and I think both of us are quite cuddly people anyway.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby PhilMow » Wed Apr 11, 2012 8:11 am

Aye, there has to be a balance.
I've been there were there's just been coitus and it gets pretty boring after a while.

I only see Anna 2 or 3 times a week at the mo, but we talk on the phone every night.
When we spend time together we mostly talk and cuddle. There might be days or
weeks between coitus, because we don't need to do it all the time. We were at it a bit
like rabbits to begin with.
We have a lot of shared interests so there's always something to talk about and do together.
At the mo, we're in the final stages of planning our wedding and also trying to get ourselves
a mortgage and house.
But I just love spending time with her, no matter what we are doing.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Jobdone » Wed Apr 11, 2012 8:24 am

Bisset wrote:Also (and Moo will get this I hope) when she was raiding in Warcraft she didn't like using 'push to talk' so I couldn't even be in the same room as her for four hours every 3 or so nights.


See, we have a couple of guys on vent that don't use push to talk.

We just to take the opportunity to tell their girlfriends how shitty their boyfriends are at whatever game we're playing.

And something along the lines of "HE'S GOT A TINY DICK AIN'T HE? BET HE'S GOT A TINY DICK" :lol:

I love no push to talk with couples.
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Bisset » Wed Apr 11, 2012 8:31 am

Jobdone wrote:
Bisset wrote:Also (and Moo will get this I hope) when she was raiding in Warcraft she didn't like using 'push to talk' so I couldn't even be in the same room as her for four hours every 3 or so nights.


See, we have a couple of guys on vent that don't use push to talk.

We just to take the opportunity to tell their girlfriends how shitty their boyfriends are at whatever game we're playing.

And something along the lines of "HE'S GOT A TINY DICK AIN'T HE? BET HE'S GOT A TINY DICK" :lol:

I love no push to talk with couples.


See that would have been amusing if I'd been in but the one day I was in the room I kept getting frowned at when I moved my chair. I keep thinking I've had a lucky escape.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby VirginInvader » Wed Apr 11, 2012 12:13 pm

Seriously, you really all had a two page discussion about cuddling? Fucking hell, you complete bunch of poofs :lol:
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby V-Man » Wed Apr 11, 2012 12:16 pm

Cuddles are the best, if you grasped this fact you might get to enjoy more vagina :P
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby VirginInvader » Wed Apr 11, 2012 12:20 pm

V-Man wrote:Cuddles are the best, if you grasped this fact you might get to enjoy more vagina :P

Where I come from, there's a difference between liking a cuddle, and admitting to liking a cuddle on a Heavy Metal forum mate :lol:
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby Delightful-Jim » Wed Apr 11, 2012 12:25 pm

Chokin' teh bitch is totally metal guys.
If I like it, It's probably awful.

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Postby xBERSERKERx » Wed Apr 11, 2012 12:48 pm

Lick Mars wrote:you've gotta be with someone you can at least have a good conversation with. Cuddling and fucking only lasts so long before you end up going to the pub


She did say she was shy, but, conversations are easy to come buy, we've had a few silent moments while just cuddling on my bed, she's met 75% of my friends and seems to get on fine with them. :)
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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby JrHunter » Wed Apr 11, 2012 2:37 pm

Delightful-Jim wrote:Irish interrelationship vocabulary :

Score : To eat one's face. No more. No less.
Pulled : Above but included with either a handjob or oral sex.
Gettin' ones hole : To engage in copulation with another person or persons.


Edit: Oh yeah we have this stupid one the Dubs us called "meeting", I don't know if any of the brits use it. But it's no different from making out or scoring. It's stupid and I don't like saying it. ¬__¬



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Postby Delightful-Jim » Wed Apr 11, 2012 2:44 pm

The only people I knew that said that were people in Drogheda. And I don't hear it anywhere else to be honest.
If I like it, It's probably awful.

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby JrHunter » Wed Apr 11, 2012 2:51 pm

Delightful-Jim wrote:The only people I knew that said that were people in Drogheda. And I don't hear it anywhere else to be honest.



Tbh, I only know that term cause of the RubberBandits :lol:

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Re: The Relationships Thread

Postby VirginInvader » Wed Apr 11, 2012 3:31 pm

Told my mate a few weeks to man up and go for it with this bird he kept going on about, and they've just started going out the other day. They've both messaged me saying thanks and that they owe me beers for sorting it all out. Probably my first good deed of 2012 like :D
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Postby peypea » Wed Apr 11, 2012 3:50 pm

First... And only. :D
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