The Relationships Thread

[VirginInvader]

Mate, you really need to go for some better women if you think that's standard behaviour.

Haha, tell me something I don't know

[tranmerefan]

Aye the alarm bells are ringing slightly about that. It's not something I really understand tbqh. It does seem very strange. She might have genuine reasons behind it but I dunno.

Texted her today to see when she's free. She says let me know as she'll probably need to settle into her new job for a few days.

Fair enough I suppose, she does start tomorrow.

[De Stijl]

Just make sure you know the optimal route to the window if she invites you back.

[Nantha]

Aye the alarm bells are ringing slightly about that. It's not something I really understand tbqh. It does seem very strange. She might have genuine reasons behind it but I dunno.

Doubt it. She's probably just too scared to be single so is dragging out an unhappy relationship until she finds someone else.

[Danroush]

Aye the alarm bells are ringing slightly about that. It's not something I really understand tbqh. It does seem very strange. She might have genuine reasons behind it but I dunno.

Doubt it. She's probably just too scared to be single so is dragging out an unhappy relationship until she finds someone else.

Massive generalisation incoming, but I've only ever seen girls do that, and I've seen it happen many times with many people. Is it just the people I've seen or is it actually a girl thing? Either way it's a fucking horrible thing to do to someone

[VirginInvader]

It's certainly happened to me more than once. I'm not too bothered though, I deserve to be treated like shit anyway and feel I just need to take whatever I can get like.

[thehairyone]

I know plenty of men who've done the same - not moving on until they have the next bed nicely warmed up.

[peypea]

Yeah, I've had it done to me. But they were a massive fucking cunt anyway.

[Smindas]

Yeah, definitely not a boy / girl thing. Just a cunt / cunt thing.

[TheLotusEater193]

I've only known 2 people who have done that - one was my Dad and one was a male friend. Sounds like you guys have just been unlucky with wimminz.

[Danroush]

I've only known 2 people who have done that - one was my Dad and one was a male friend. Sounds like you guys have just been unlucky with wimminz.

Tbf I've usually been the guy they left their current one for so it's not too bad for me, but when they didn't even tell me what was going on till a while after it's a bit of a red flag

[TheLotusEater193]

Yeah, if someone was lying to me about something like that right at the beginning I think I'd find it really hard to trust them about other things.

[metalsam]

It's certainly happened to me more than once. I'm not too bothered though, I deserve to be treated like shit anyway and feel I just need to take whatever I can get like.

Well cut that shit out and sort it out then!

[De Stijl]

Just turn gay. All men want is sex and an easy life.

[Delightful-Jim]

It's probably happened to me, but I was only in one relationship and it was long distance, so god fucking knows what she was doing. She was constantly chatting to a guy we both knew online, and they got with each other a while after she dumped me, so I don't know if I count.


Jesus that's nearly been two years now. Should I even bother with another relationship?