NeglectedField wrote:Guess I need to get this off my chest, probably leave myself open to attack somehow but whatever.
So on Saturday after a heavy day of drinking we end up at our favourite club night and our mate's colleague (whom I've met before) turns up and from hazy recollection, after finding ourselves tongue wrestling I end up back at hers, as you do.
The intimacy and affection in the morning was just so lovely, it's bowled me over. I'd forgotten how intoxicating it is. Been in a haze all week, can't concentrate, very different mood and sense of enjoyment/creativity. Sunday hangover was brutal so that may have played a part as well.
She's smart, not sure about overlap of interests aside from general intellectual curiosity. Also the big thing is she's like, 35-40, pushing that maybe? Great body for her age though. Then I saw her in the kitchen light and her age showed a bit more, and I was thinking hmm, I dunno. I know that's mean.
Not sure whether to pursue it any further than our polite short text exchange on Monday. I need to figure out what I want. Even just closure or something.
The last bit is the important bit-"i need to figure out what i want".Only YOU can decide whether to pursue it any further.What i can definitely say you shouldn't do is start dating her because you are worried she might feel used as a one night stand or whatever.Just think about it and be honest with yourself-and to her.Good luck anyway.