Xzar wrote:I like relationships that are serious, else I don't see the point in wasting all that time and effort.
Well I like to get to that point rather than guys I meet saying "I am not looking for a relationship" and then not even try to get to know me before deciding that.
They immeditely sign you off as not suitable for more and just sex.
It bugs me so much- I value myself more than that, yet I get punished for it. Makes me think what is the point in having values and self esteme if all men want is a gal that gives out.
Maybe that is why I have been single for 2 years. I just hate no strings sex. It's not me.
Starting to wonder if it is just me though- do I scare people into not wanting more- or are just all the guys I meet whores wanting easy sex?
Where are all the genuine guys?