Fjar wrote:Sometimes we can go for hours without a meaningful conversation, just "You want a cup of tea?" or "What's on TV?". Just being in the general vicinity of each other is enough. I'd probably get sick of cuddles if that's all we did, sometimes we just can't be arsed, and we generally spend whole evenings doing different things.
Bedtime is cuddle time.
The sign of a comfortable relationship I'd say. I do miss the companionship but I've been thinking about it more recently and I think the reason that I started getting so miserable was due to the fact my ex as never around when I was. Her sleeping pattern was so fucked that she'd stay up all night when I when I was asleep, she'd sleep til 5, she went to London/ Manchester about 3 times a month at the tail end of last year.
Also (and Moo will get this I hope) when she was raiding in Warcraft she didn't like using 'push to talk' so I couldn't even be in the same room as her for four hours every 3 or so nights.
Basically I ended up being lonely in my own house while she was there. so in short - I'd take companionship over fucking and cuddles (although a nice mix would have been nice)