The Relationships Thread

[Jobdone]

Wow, considering the wall of text I assumed it was going to be a real problem.

So people assume you listen to weird shit because you were tshirts suggesting you listen to weird shit.

Oh the humanity.

How will you ever survive this adversity.

[Delightful-Jim]

Wow, considering the wall of text I assumed it was going to be a real problem.

So people assume you listen to weird shit because you were tshirts suggesting you listen to weird shit.

Oh the humanity.

How will you ever survive this adversity.

No offence, but this. I completely agree with this.

[Applecore]

Pretty rude of that guy to say that though. But it seems quite common for metalheads/rock fans to not give a shit about what others listen to, yet others feel it fine to comment on ours.

Personally, I'd have just listened to Disney albums on his Spotify

[VirginInvader]

Reminds of when I in Alex's room while he was at uni and went on a two hour Huey Lewis binge on his Spotify

[Jim]

Reminds of when I in Alex's room while he was at uni and went on a two hour Huey Lewis binge on his Spotify

Huey Lewis is fucking class though. Lad

[NeglectedField]

Today I went round a photographers house for a fitting. He left me in his house with the pc to go get another model from the station. Before he went out he said 'Oh you can use facebook and Spotify if you want, but make sure you log out of mine, I don't want people on my facebook seeing my Spotify and thinking something's wrong with me!'
When I enquired he said it's because I like all that 'dark, black music'. I said oh right, yeah I suppose you could call M83 and Kate Bush that

I don't get it, it's such double standards. I don't assume anything about people's music tastes, yet I constantly have people criticising and making fun of what they think I listen to... and they usually get it completely wrong.

Generally to avoid all that, I don't wear band tshirts and 'metal' looking stuff unless I'm out with like-minded people nowadays, I don't have the energy for that sort of judgement any more.

This is why I only wear certain shirts on casual Friday at work. Trouble is I have nothing in the way of trendy attire, it's on a continuum from nerdy neutral to militant metal.

Talking of work, I was out drinking last night with 3 of them including the hot Hungarian girl. Someone told me she didn't like St. Pauls because all the black guys were like "whoa, baby got back". Which to be honest, she does. I mean, really. One of my black colleagues was like "man, I would go in".

She also told me she does nude modelling (artistic, not pornographic).

Don't think we really click though. Shame.

[Turbo]

Pretty rude of that guy to say that though. But it seems quite common for metalheads/rock fans to not give a shit about what others listen to, yet others feel it fine to comment on ours.

Personally, I'd have just listened to Disney albums on his Spotify

I'd have downloaded lots of dodgy porn.

Id have shot my load all over his keyboard and monitor.



...and done some bum skiing on his floor.

[Jim]

bum skiing

[Dan Jenkins]

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[TheLotusEater193]

The end of 8 months with a really lovely person, I wish her only good things and am glad for her continued friendship.

Likewise

[keera_envenomed]

That's really sad to hear guys but i'm glad you are going to stay friends

[herzeleid]

Well, that's hardly exciting and juicy now is it. Cookie and Noodle and Alex and Ania were far more fun(ny)!

I'll help you guys get started, you just need to complete this sentence:

The main thing I did not like about my ex partner was __________

[Delightful-Jim]

Sorry to hear that about you guys As long as there are no hard feelings I guess it isn't SO bad though, but it still sucks :/

[NeglectedField]

I'll help you guys get started, you just need to complete this sentence:

The main thing I did not like about my ex partner was __________

!

No offence, obv. Glad it's ended on okay terms.

[Danroush]

I'll help you guys get started, you just need to complete this sentence:

The main thing I did not like about my ex partner was __________

!

No offence, obv. Glad it's ended on okay terms.

This. One piece of advice I'd give though after seeing similar situations many times, is to give each other a little space through not meeting up too often, if just for a short while, to avoid things getting heated. If you try to jump straight from relationship to close mates it's often likely to cause problems, the most common being one or the other wanting to get back together when the other doesn't.

If you're already well aware of this then fair enough, was just throwing my 2 cent in