Tet wrote:Delightful-Jim wrote:Oh god, I am now that guy I usually laugh at. The one who is so fucking oblivious he cannot tell, nay even denies, that an attractive woman was totally hitting on him.
Hi. Who are you and why are you talking about me?
FWIW, my friends depaired so much, they locked me and my first girlfriend in a room overnight and wouldn't let us out until we'd got together. We did, but honestly, I thought we were just good friends until that point.
Well I just met this girl, she was a friend of a friend, and she didn't know any of us so I thought I'd try to make an effort, y'see. Seemed perfectly innocent to me, even though it was the girls birthday, and my friend seemed reeally insistent that I give her a "birthday kiss" or something.
I was drinking though. Not heavily, just had a few. Wasn't dressed for a night out or anything, so the idea of her actually showing interest genuinely had not crossed my mind.
I'm not even interested in her. Just wanted to be friends. It's the fact that I am now completely unaware of this probably means my self-confidence has gone down a bit, since I haven't had a girlfriend in a good while. It's funny, I think.