Moonburp wrote:
Just don't write an albums worth of songs about them. Doesn't help.
Shit, I should probably stop work on "Burned out too soon: An Ode to Fleshlights Gone By" then
Moonburp wrote:
Just don't write an albums worth of songs about them. Doesn't help.
Moonburp wrote:Danroush wrote:It's been over a year since it ended but I still have semi frequent dreams about the (only) girl that left me at the start of last year. I don't have her on fb, she's currently back in Spain so I don't see her or anything, there's no reason to think about her yet I can't get the thought of her fully out of my head and I don't know why.
Even though we weren't together for long, we clicked perfectly as soon as we met. She was the first person I'd ever truly loved (could also use the phrase "in love with" but sometimes the phrasing of love and in love changes meaning for some so not quite sure which to use), and I was a complete mess after she ended it last year
Reason she ended it: she is very work focused and I wanted to see her all the time whereas she felt she needed to be working a lot of the time which is fair enough considering she's a top of her year law student back there, and she had also recently got out of a 2 1/2 year relationship when she came over, so she wasn't really in the right place to jump into something, especially as she would be leaving back to Spain that summer.
After a period of not speaking we became friends again, and after a long chat we somewhat came to a conclusion of "right people, wrong time," and when she moved back we were in occasional contact, throwing messages here and there, but after a while I felt like she wasn't really making the level of effort I would consider enough to be a proper friend, and due to the history between us I felt it was better to not have her on fb as a "kinda" friend reminding me of things, but since deleting her, she's now even more stuck in my dreams again, the weird part being I don't even think about her during the day, yet I often wake up feeling shit because of yet another dream.
I know it's pathetic to still be this hung up on someone, but it just makes me feel so shit
Fuck, this rings true. Spanish girls get under your skin, bro.
I know it's impossible to think about moving on and that you'll never really find anyone who got you in the same way but you will. The worst thing you can do is spend years hung up on the same person, spending hours on the 'what ifs' and 'if onlys', especially if you have no way to contact them. Deleting them from Facebook is a really good move, props on you for doing that. Maybe I'll do the same one day. Moving on is really hard, but you just gotta live your life like it never happened. Brutal, but needed. You got this, man.
Just don't write an albums worth of songs about them. Doesn't help.
Freyja wrote:I never used to be able to fit a whole one in my mouth. But now I can with ease.
TheLotusEater193 wrote:WHY IS IT SO TINY?!
TheLotusEater193 wrote:To be fair 1 and a half minutes is really good if you've never done it before.
Turbo wrote:One day I'll get around to tasting Pussy.
peypea wrote:Congrats man! Fist bumps your way. Yeah dating is still a bit weird for me, but fun weird? Still a bit terrifying though. In a similar vein of success I finally got with someone I've fancied for a while now at the weekend. Who knew that all it would take for me to act like a normal person was to move out of my parents house
tranmerefan wrote:On another first date tomorrow as it seemingly fizzled out with the female Tim (well, never got going).
NeglectedField wrote:tranmerefan wrote:On another first date tomorrow as it seemingly fizzled out with the female Tim (well, never got going).
All that surgery for nothing
Freyja wrote:I never used to be able to fit a whole one in my mouth. But now I can with ease.
TheLotusEater193 wrote:WHY IS IT SO TINY?!
TheLotusEater193 wrote:To be fair 1 and a half minutes is really good if you've never done it before.
Jobdone wrote:Currently jealous of my mate whose got tomorrow off and can just hammer it for 3 days straight.
Turbo wrote:One day I'll get around to tasting Pussy.