The Relationships Thread

[Turbo]

Plus if she's proper fucking minted you should be getting something in the way of inheritance when she pegs it.

[Bisset]

Damn son, you got a sugar momma?

[NeglectedField]

Haha, nah she pays about the same rent as me but on the crumbly top floor of some grand old lady's house.

Not feeling guilty so much, doubt she's holding her breath given how it happened but yeah, the sober date thing was what I was thinking, if I do anything. Maybe I'm just a big sap and I need a proper night's sleep.

[keera_envenomed]

Haha, nah she pays about the same rent as me but on the crumbly top floor of some grand old lady's house.

Not feeling guilty so much, doubt she's holding her breath given how it happened but yeah, the sober date thing was what I was thinking, if I do anything. Maybe I'm just a big sap and I need a proper night's sleep.

It's going to be far worse not doing anything and spending forever wondering "what if?" than just pursuing something. If she says no, then it was never meant to be and you've not lost anything.

[NeglectedField]

Seeing her tomorrow at some festival in town.

[Jobdone]

Seeing her tomorrow at some festival in town.

Aw yiss just see what happens.

If everything is awful then yeah life is awful anyway so it makes sense and if it aint then yeah fun times.

[NeglectedField]

Went to a pub for lunch instead because of the rain. It was pleasant enough talking about whatever but nah, don't fancy her as much as I thought, no real chemistry this time and not much common ground so I didn't bother with a second drink, made the standard excuses. She appreciated it but yeah, just relieved I can move on.

[Turbo]

Spent a majority of yesterday with this girl! I think it went alright, we went Five Guys (first time I have ever been), then went for a beer and a walk with her through the a park in Solihull. Today she asks me if I want to go to a museum which we will do either week after BOA or week after that in London! I have kind of shocked myself how well this is going so far. I am probably going to counter that with a food date she likes food lets do food!

I am pretty happy right now


Update: bit the bullet, she accepted we're fooding! Extremely happy now, praying I don't fuck this up!

[NeglectedField]

[tranmerefan]

Good lad! Hope it goes well

[fluffymoo]

Boner guy came by today to see me - I was having a nap though. Apparently he wants to ask me out on a date to the cinema. He also called me a "pretty princess".

Halp

[onona]

Boner guy came by today to see me - I was having a nap though. Apparently he wants to ask me out on a date to the cinema. He also called me a "pretty princess".

Halp

Tell him you're not interested, and if he persists, get tough.

[NeglectedField]

Eat loads of stinky food beforehand. Or anything that'll make you fart. Let rip at the crucial moment when he gets all rubby and bonery.

Actually that's a bit risky, might be his thing.

[Slev]

Eat loads of stinky food beforehand. Or anything that'll make you fart. Let rip at the crucial moment when he gets all rubby and bonery.

Actually that's a bit risky, might be his thing.

You find the guy creepy to start with, so you've no interest in keeping him as a friend.

You're best bet is to be brutally honest. Tell him you're not interested and his MRA-esq actions towards you have been creepy to say the least.

Worst case scenario, you feel better, nothing else changes.

Best case scenario, he leaves you alone, and gets his life together.

[VizardAmata]

Boner guy came by today to see me - I was having a nap though. Apparently he wants to ask me out on a date to the cinema. He also called me a "pretty princess".

Halp

Tell him you're not interested, and if he persists, get tough.

Yeah, this.