What's upset you?

[ScrumpiesVeteran]

Sorry for your loss. Such a beautiful puddy tat !

[fluffymoo]

Proper nose dive mood wise. Fuck this, fuck that. Fuck everything. I wish I had the balls to walk up the road to the train tracks.

[tranmerefan]

Proper nose dive mood wise. Fuck this, fuck that. Fuck everything. I wish I had the balls to walk up the road to the train tracks.

You're stronger than that though and you know it.

[Turbo]

So I just had this girl I have spent a few months hanging around with send me a message saying that she doesn't think a relationship between us would work out...even before we were officially in a relationship. Genuinely cut up about that to be honest. If I am being truthful, I think shes found someone else.


Also no messages about you can do better, or that I am better than her...words to that effect. They're really not welcome.

[peypea]

Mate I'm sorry, that's harsh. Sending you many many hugs <3

[Nantha]

Sorry matey
Doesn't matter that you weren't 'official' that shit still hurts just as much.
Hoping you feel better soon

[Jobdone]

Rough mate I'll make sure to give you an extra lenghty handy at damnation

[Turbo]

It's shit, I mean I don't think her head is in a great place at the moment, had a rough weekend with the family. But as far as leading me on is concerned, I do definitely accuse her of that. I get shall we say suggestive pictures, and messages this time last week and this week, we're not on talking terms because in the space of 3 days after a terrible weekend for her, she's thought about everything carefully and deemed we are not compatible.

Guess we will never know, I don't forgive easily as you have probably got the jist of over the years! Not sure I'll take up her offer of 'just being friends' and 'hanging out.' Cuntish as this sounds, I have enough friends tbf.

Went for a walk to cancel my gym membership, I don't particularly want to bump into her there but it's not the most pressing thing, that my income has taken a severe hit in recent months and it wasn't great to begin with but yeah all that aside the 10km walk has done me a power of good.

[peypea]

I'd say she's just suggesting to stay friends to try and keep you around if she decides she wants to fuck with you again. Some people are just butt heads.

I mean I might be totally wrong but that's just how I see it.

[Turbo]

I'd say she's just suggesting to stay friends to try and keep you around if she decides she wants to fuck with you again. Some people are just butt heads.

I mean I might be totally wrong but that's just how I see it.

Totally think the same mate, and with the implication I don't forgive easily, I don't stick around for people to call upon me when I am wanted. I have had a mate do the same to me in the last month, goes several weeks without saying a word to me, then when he's got no one else to hang with, ring up Turbo and pretend to be best friends like nothing happened. Worst still is he's not the first and I doubt he will be the last. This will sound daft but this has hit me harder than it did with my ex and rather than a few dates and a few days hanging around and texts and that it lasted 6 years.

I feel pretty pathetic at the moment.

[fluffymoo]

^ You know where I am if you need me, bro.


What's upset me? A huge fucking mood crash. I hate being single. Hate seeing people get engaged on Facebook. It's petty, I know, but why do they get to be happy and not me? Heart broken, absolutely gutted atm. It's like someone stuck a carrot through my heart and twisted.

[Jobdone]

The problem with that Lis is that you've got like two options.

1) You jump on the closest male shaped thing nearby and accept that life is kinda ugh but you know it's fine because it's there

2) You stay in that general state and you throw bad vibes at anyone that's happy because fguck them and eventually something decent comes around but it might take longer.

Now. None of my options are great, but they're realistic because you're a tiny blonde bombshell so you've got it whatever you chose.

I mean.

There's probably tons of other options but what am I supposed to do, provide balanced humanic advice like "Oh just be you", fuck that, kidnap someone, take them into a basement, keep them in darkness.

They'll eventually breathe and you just wait and suck up the last part of their oxygen. Eventually they'll relate your smell to human contact and they won't react to it. If anything they'll be joyful.

So yeah if you can kidnap someone you're sorted, and if you can't then try harder.

[Nantha]

Generally every time I see someone get engaged on Facebook I wince a bit. You might think that they're happy but most are just making a terrible mistake. Well pretty much everyone I know who gets 'engaged' or 'happily married' in their 20s, doesn't stay like that for long, so try not to get jealous

[Turbo]

I think half of my married mates just did it for Facebook likes. I make a thing of not liking, I want to be a part of it when it all falls to shit.

[NeglectedField]

Can there please be a Facebook app for horrible cunts like us where you can covertly bet with mutual friends over how long it lasts?