The Relationships Thread

[Finnvitka]

hah

well, this guy's already seen me at my absolute most hammered so there's one less thing to terrify him with.

[raka13]

Situation:
Girlfriend - Poly-amorous
Me - Not

Girl wants us to get to stage where I am happy with her being poly.
Girl is going to Spain on 25th Jan for 3 months, and has said that she will start being poly again then.
Girl has said that currently we are not in a poly-relationship.

I come home from Christmas dinner yesterday and find 4 Voicemails on skype.
Second one seems to have girl saying "Did you bring a condom", a guy called max (who wanted to fuck her sometime ago, and was apparently helping her edit films for uni) saying "This isn't just a one night thing?" and right at the end girl saying "Oh Fuck!" as she realises voicemail is still recording, and then it cuts out.


One person suggests texting her, casually asking about the voicemails, another suggests waiting until I can confront her face to face.

Bloodstock, any advice please?
Don't suppose any of you lot are poly?

[Ensorcelled]

Ditch the slag.

[Jim]

Girl wants us to get to stage where I am happy with her being poly.

That's the give away. If you don't want to be poly and she does, then something isn't working.

Either one of you makes the change to make the relationship work or it simply won't work.

End it.

[Jobdone]

Kill her.

Wear skin as suit.

Find people she's been sleeping with.

Rape them.

[raka13]

Girl wants us to get to stage where I am happy with her being poly.

That's the give away. If you don't want to be poly and she does, then something isn't working.

Either one of you makes the change to make the relationship work or it simply won't work.

End it.

I don't feel right being poly, but want to be able to accept it for her...

[Jim]

I don't mean to sound harsh, but drop it and find someone else.

Both of you have to be able to accept who each other is without the need to make huge changes such as views on relationships, and nobody is worth changing your morals on relationships for.

[raka13]

Kill her.

Wear skin as suit.

Find people she's been sleeping with.

Rape them.

That has got to be the best option I've heard so-far.

[Jim]

Also, it sounds like you're still in infatuation stages.

If you've done her already, woopee, nice one - not relationship material? Move on.

[raka13]

I don't mean to sound harsh, but drop it and find someone else.

Both of you have to be able to accept who each other is without the need to make huge changes such as views on relationships, and nobody is worth changing your morals on relationships for.

I know.

Thing is, she says she has not been paying attention to her poly impulses while we've been together so far, and doesn't like the fact she isn't being herself.
I want to find a nice middle ground, but don't know what is a good one.
She says she doesn't want to split up with me either.

Oh, and she's rather hypocritical.

Also, it sounds like you're still in infatuation stages.

If you've done her already, woopee, nice one - not relationship material? Move on

We've been together from about May.
And she seems to be the one who wants to do me more than me wanting to do her.

[HollyTheHeadbanger]

I'd fucking ditch that.

[Finnvitka]

I'd be in it for threesomes.

[Jobdone]

I'd be in it for threesomes.

They'd all be devils threesomes

[raka13]

I'd be in it for threesomes.

I was looking forward to your response!
You seem to be rather like her

[Finnvitka]

I'd be in it for threesomes.

I was looking forward to your response!
You seem to be rather like her

haha how? I'm not sure whether to be offended or amused :p