Rickles_the_Mighty wrote:MentalInfestation wrote:vonLipwig wrote:
Bite the Bullet!!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kkbgNnUp4G0
Bah!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OWp0kjovkgE
No no. vonLipwig is correct.
I prefer MH
Rickles_the_Mighty wrote:MentalInfestation wrote:vonLipwig wrote:
Bite the Bullet!!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kkbgNnUp4G0
Bah!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OWp0kjovkgE
No no. vonLipwig is correct.
MentalInfestation wrote:I prefer MH
Ensorcelled wrote:MentalInfestation wrote:I prefer MH
Someone has to.
herzeleid wrote:Applecore wrote:It's hard to feel happy being single when it lasts for so long each time. Not to mention the endless amounts of rejection.
But anyway, it's not so much that I hate being single, it's more that I like this girl and want to do something about it, instead of doing my usual thing of liking her but keeping shtum about it and then she gets a boyfriend who, inevitably, is a bastard (whether he's actually a bastard or if I just decide he is because he's not me is another story altogether).
Dude, you need to chillax! No wonder you're so in a state all the time. Stop seeking it out so much, no hope = no fear. Learn to love yourself, and yes, the pun was partly intended.
Finnvitka wrote:So basically, HerzSam and that guy are right. And I'm not going to fucking sugarcoat, it doesn't help anyone.
We women right, we can smell desperation. We don't like it. It's deeply unattractive to basically all of us (apart from the weirdos who are themselves so desperate they go out with the first person who comes along and end up dead or whatever. I digress).
How do you know that being in a relationship will be the magical cure all your life needs for you to be happy? Why do you even want one that badly? Is it because you seem like you're the only single person ever? You're not. Is it because you don't want to die alone? That's stuff to think about when you're like 70 and have no family or friends.
How can you even be happy in a relationship if you're not happy with yourself first? Being single isn't about finding the next person for a long term relationship, it's about learning about yourself, enjoying your own company. In the words of Belle de Jour in her frankly brilliant book "Guide To Men" (for women, but to be honest most of it applies to both sexes) - "be who you want to get in a relationship" and "fake it until you make it". So, you say you're not overly confident, but it's not actually hard to give a pretence of confidence. Stand straight, smile when you talk to people, make witty conversation if that's your forte. And if you're determined to get a long term relationship, you've GOT to stop pining after girls who are taken or don't seem interested. Ask them, if they say no, chalk it up to experience and move on. No is not the be all and end all of life.
siliconfury wrote:
The "smelling desperation" thing might be subjective and differ from person to person - Amy probably has incredibly good intuition and it's up to her to decide how to read the "desperation" that she's sensing.
Finnvitka wrote:So, you're trying to tell me if some guy you're not interested in the slightest in is being overfriendly and trying SO HARD to get into your pants, you're not put off by that?